This is Mike's Mom. I asked him to tell us about finding and this
is what he sent:
Chapping is what they call knocking on doors to find new people to teach the gospel to.
What is
finding/chapping doors like?
Well depends on the
neighborhoods. Most of the time, the "houses" are really big but
split in two, so that they're really two houses. There's also what's called
"Council Housing", which is basically given to people that ask for
special benefits i.e. young single mothers, addicts in general, etc.
What are the doors like?
It's funny. They're either
really small, or massive! And none of them have doorknobs. Some don't have
anything at all, just a lock. Like ours! I'll send you a picture of it. It's so
weird!
Do they have doorbells? Most have doorbells.
Everyone seems to have a knocker as well, though most are purely for decoration
and have no weight in and of themselves. I actually have come to like knockers.
I saw one that was fashioned to look like a woodpecker! Pretty clever!
Does everyone answer? No not always.
Do you feel like they're home but
don't answer? Sometimes, but again not always. There's those doors where you literally
see them but they don't come. There's also some people that just wave at you
through their windows to go away. Or they don't even come to the door, they
just stick their heads out the window, Romeo and Juliet style!
Is chapping very effective? Because
most people work and are not even home during the day. Is that what you
find?
In the nicer neighborhoods,
yes. In the council housing, nobody works, so you'll always find somebody. Not
to mention you'll usually bump into a stay-at-home mother.
For every door you knock, how many
people answer? Depends
on the time of day. In the evenings there's more likely to get an answer,
though there's also the possibility of them being out to eat or drink
or party. It also depends on the day too. Saturdays and Sundays, for the most
part, are better. At the same time, Saturdays and Sundays are the days that
people usually go out, or at least want to spend as much time as possible with
their families.
What do you say when they answer? Do you take turns?
Yes we take turns, and we try
to change what we say each time. "Hello we're missionaries from the Church
of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints! Have you ever heard of that church?"
"Hello! My friend and I are asking people 'What makes you happy?'"
"Hello! My friend and I are talking with people about a book called the
Book of Mormon. Have you ever heard of that book?" "Hello! My friend
and I are talking with people about families. Would you say your family is very
important to you?"
What do the people say? When it comes to excuses,
the most common is "I'm busy doing such and such", or "I already
have my religion and I'm happy with it", or just simply "I'm not
interested." But we usually get a few responses from people before they
say those. Unfortunately we also hear a lot of swearing.
Do they invite you in? Not usually. I've been
let in, probably half-a-dozen times on my mission. Some missionaries are bold,
and when they say "Oh, I'm having dinner" they say "Do you have
room for two more?" Sometimes it actually works!
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